Every child is a blessing
Not a diagnosis, not a behavior plan, not a file. A child — with a sense of humor, favorite things, and a way of seeing the world worth knowing.
City of Blessing • Home Based Daycare • New York City
A licensed home-based daycare offering compassionate, structured care and specialized autism support — small groups, flexible hours, and caregivers who know your child by name.
Welcome
City of Blessing is a home-based daycare, and that shapes everything about the day. Children arrive to a familiar room, a familiar face, and a group small enough that nobody gets lost in it. We know which child needs a slow start in the morning, which one will eat lunch only if the plate is set up a certain way, and which one is finally, this week, asking a friend to play.
We welcome children with autism and other developmental differences alongside every other child in our care. Support here isn't a separate track — it's built into how the whole day runs, so that every child is included in the same activities, adapted to what they actually need.
Our Services
Individualized strategies, visual supports, and calm, consistent responses from adults who understand behavior as communication.
Skill-building in real settings — the store, the park, the sidewalk — so what a child learns actually travels home with them.
Dressing, handwashing, mealtimes, cleanup, and the everyday independence that builds real confidence.
Predictable routines, visual schedules, and hands-on early learning at each child's own pace.
A clean, childproofed home setting with constant supervision and caregivers trained in CPR and first aid.
Daily sensory play plus quiet spaces for breaks — two sides of the same idea, available to every child.
Why families choose us
❤ Empowering children with autism to reach their full potential.
Building brighter futures for New York City's children — one small, well-known group at a time.
Tours are welcome during the day, when the rooms are full and busy. That's when you learn the most.
Who we are
A home-based daycare built around one belief — every child is a blessing, and every child deserves care shaped to who they actually are.
Our story
City of Blessing began the way a lot of good programs do — with families who couldn't find what they needed. Parents of children with autism told the same story again and again: their child was welcome somewhere until the first hard day, and then the phone calls started. Somewhere else had a waitlist measured in years. Somewhere else had thirty children in a room and no one who knew how to help theirs.
We opened as a home-based program on purpose. A smaller setting means a child can be known rather than managed, and it means a caregiver has time to sit on the floor with one child for ten minutes without the rest of the room falling apart. That's not a limitation of home-based care. It's the whole point of it.
What we believe
Not a diagnosis, not a behavior plan, not a file. A child — with a sense of humor, favorite things, and a way of seeing the world worth knowing.
When a child melts down, climbs, bolts, or shuts down, they are telling us something. Our first question is always what, not how do we stop it.
Predictable days lower anxiety. Children who know what comes next spend their energy on playing and learning instead of bracing.
You know your child better than we ever will. We ask, we listen, and we use what already works at home.
Low numbers aren't a marketing line here — they're the reason individualized care is actually possible.
A first independent handwash. A first shared toy. We measure the week by those, not by a checklist.
Our team
Our caregivers are trained in early childhood care and in supporting children with autism and developmental differences, with behavior tech support on site. Everyone who works with children here is CPR certified, first aid trained, and cleared through required background screening before they ever start.
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The details
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What we provide
Compassionate care, structured learning, and specialized autism support — delivered in one small, consistent setting rather than scattered across five places.
Everything below happens in the same room, with the same caregivers, across the same day. That continuity is the service. A child who works on saying more at snack practices it again at the art table an hour later, with an adult who remembers what happened at snack.
Service 1
Support that's specific to your child, not to a category. We start by learning what sets your child off, what settles them, how they ask for things, and what they love — then build the day around that.
We are a child care program, not a clinical or therapy provider. We reinforce the strategies your therapists use — we don't replace them.
Service 2
Skills only stick when they're practiced where they're used. Community habilitation takes learning out of the room and into the places a child actually has to manage — a sidewalk, a checkout line, a waiting room, a playground full of other children.
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Service 3
Independence is built out of very small pieces, practiced daily and without rush: pulling up a zipper, carrying a plate, washing hands without a reminder, putting one toy away before taking out another.
Service 4
Early learning here is hands-on and play-based, wrapped in a routine that doesn't change from day to day. Children can predict the shape of the morning, which frees them up to actually learn inside it.
Service 5
Everything above depends on a child feeling safe enough to try things. That means a clean, childproofed space, adults within sight and sound at all times, and a group small enough that no child slips out of anyone's attention.
Tell us a little about your child and we'll walk you through what their day here would look like.
Specialized support
Loving, individualized care for children with autism and other developmental differences — and real support for the families raising them.
Many families come to us after a hard experience somewhere else. A program that said yes at enrollment and changed its mind after the first difficult week. A room that was too loud, too fast, and too full. A caregiver who meant well but had no idea what to do when a child bolted or stopped speaking.
We built this program for those children first. Autism support isn't an add-on service we offer — it's the design of our day. Which means we are not surprised by a hard morning, and we don't call you to come get your child because they had one.
How we work
Before a first day, we sit down with you: what calms your child, what sets them off, how they ask for things, what they love, and what has already been tried.
Visual schedules, consistent routines, and advance warning before anything changes — the single most effective anxiety reducer we know.
Speech, signs, picture cards, devices, gestures, leading us by the hand. We use whatever system your child already has and stay consistent with it.
Softer lighting, managed noise, and a calm space available all day — offered before a child hits their limit.
We keep everyone safe, stay calm, and teach the skill that replaces the behavior. We don't shame children or use isolation as discipline.
Your child joins the same activities as everyone else. We adapt the activity, not the child's right to be in it.
Working together
If your child receives Early Intervention, preschool special education (CPSE) services, ABA, speech, occupational, or physical therapy, tell us. With your written permission we'll coordinate with those providers so the prompts, words, and strategies used here match the ones used everywhere else. Consistency across settings is what makes a skill stick.
Being straight with you
Children do not need a diagnosis to enroll, and a diagnosis alone doesn't determine what support we offer. What matters is what your individual child needs.
Bring your questions, your concerns, and the things that didn't work elsewhere. We want to hear all of it.
Seven ways we build the day
Every child in our care moves through these seven areas each day — play that engages the senses, spaces that quiet them, and routines that make the whole thing predictable.
Textures, colors, sounds, movement, and sensory-friendly materials.
Quiet time, sensory breaks, and reduced stimulation on demand.
Expressing needs, making choices, interacting, building confidence.
Sharing, turn-taking, recognizing emotions, positive relationships.
Painting, crafts, rhythm, movement, and self-expression.
Balance, coordination, movement, and fine-motor development.
Predictable schedules, visual cues, and gentle transitions.
One
Hands-on activities using textures, colors, sounds, movement, and sensory-friendly materials — because young children learn about the world with their whole bodies before they learn about it with words.
Sensory play is how a child figures out that sand pours and clay holds its shape, that a bell rings and a drum thumps, that cold water feels different on fingertips than warm water does. Every scoop, squeeze, and splash is building the brain connections that later support reading, math, and problem-solving.
Our caregivers set up sensory stations throughout the day and let children come to them at their own pace. Nothing is forced. A child who wants to watch from a few feet away for the first week is welcome to do exactly that, and a child who wants to spend forty minutes at the water table is welcome to do that too.
We keep alternatives on hand for children who don't like getting their hands messy. Paint goes in a sealed zip bag, sand gets explored with a shovel instead of fingers, and gloves or brushes are always an option. Wanting to stay clean is a preference we respect, not a problem we try to fix. We also watch for the signs that a child has had enough — covering ears, backing away, getting suddenly wound up — and help them move to a quieter activity before they hit their limit.
Please let us know about any allergies, food sensitivities, or materials your child should avoid, and we'll plan around them.
Two
Comfortable areas designed for children who need quiet time, sensory breaks, or reduced stimulation — always available, never used as punishment.
A busy room is wonderful until it isn't. Lights, voices, movement, and the general happy noise of a group of children can build up until a child needs somewhere softer to go. In our program, that place already exists and every child knows where it is.
This matters most in the moments before a meltdown rather than after one. When children can recognize “I need a break” and take one on their own, they spend far less of their day overwhelmed — and that skill stays with them long after they leave us.
Any child can ask for a break at any time, and our caregivers also offer one when they see a child starting to struggle. A break might last two minutes or twenty. When a child is ready, a caregiver walks back with them and helps them rejoin whatever's happening. We're clear with children and with families about what this space is not: it is not a time-out, not a consequence, and not a place we send children who are in trouble. Taking care of yourself is not a punishable offense.
Beyond the dedicated corner, we keep the overall environment manageable — warm lighting instead of harsh overheads where we can, soft materials that absorb sound, and predictable transitions that give children warning before the room changes gears. Quiet time is part of our daily schedule for everyone, not only for children who ask.
If your child has strategies that already work at home, tell us and we'll use the same ones. Consistency between home and care makes a real difference.
Three
Age-appropriate activities that encourage children to express their needs, make choices, interact, and build confidence — using whatever form of communication works for each child.
Communication is bigger than speech. A child who points at the shelf, hands you a picture card, signs more, pulls you toward the door, or says a full sentence is communicating, and all of it counts here. Our job is to notice the attempt, respond to it, and gently build on it.
Most of this happens inside ordinary moments rather than in a special lesson. Snack time, dress-up, block building, and the walk to the bathroom are all chances for a child to tell us something and be understood.
A toddler working on first words and a four-year-old working on telling a story need very different support, and children who use a communication device, picture system, or sign language are fully included in group activities. We use whatever system a child already has and stay consistent with it. We also work alongside families and any specialists your child already sees — if your child is receiving speech or early intervention services, share the words, signs, or prompts being used and we'll reinforce the same ones here.
We're a child care program, not a clinical or therapy provider. We support your child's communication every day and are glad to work in step with any therapists involved.
Four
Guided play that encourages sharing, taking turns, recognizing emotions, and developing positive relationships.
Getting along with other people is a skill, and like any skill it has to be taught and practiced. Young children are not born knowing how to wait for a turn, read a friend's face, or recover from disappointment. They learn it in rooms like ours, with patient adults nearby.
Our approach is to coach in the moment rather than lecture afterward. When two children want the same truck, a caregiver kneels down with both of them, names what each one wants, and helps them find a way through. That's the lesson — repeated, patiently, hundreds of times.
Big feelings are normal and we don't treat them as misbehavior. A child who is crying, hitting, or shutting down is telling us they're overwhelmed. We keep everyone safe, stay calm, and help the child settle before we talk about what happened. Our guidance is consistent and respectful: clear, simple expectations, plenty of specific praise for the things children get right, and natural consequences that make sense to a young child. We do not shame children or use isolation as a discipline strategy.
If something at home has your child off balance — a new baby, a move, a loss, a change in routine — let us know so we can give extra support that week.
Five
Painting, crafts, music, rhythm, movement, and other creative activities designed to encourage self-expression.
We care much more about what happens while a child is making something than about what it looks like when it's finished. The purple scribble, the tower of glued cardboard, the song made up on the spot — those are a child thinking out loud, and we treat them that way.
You'll notice we don't send home twenty identical crafts. When every child's project looks the same, an adult made most of the decisions. We'd rather your child made them.
Art and music can be loud and messy, so we keep the volume moderate, offer headphones when a group activity gets big, and always provide a mess-free option — painting inside a sealed bag, drawing instead of gluing, using a brush instead of fingers. Children can join a music circle from the edge of the rug or from a caregiver's lap.
We use washable, non-toxic, age-appropriate materials, and we're glad to substitute if your child has a skin sensitivity or allergy.
Six
Indoor and outdoor activities supporting balance, coordination, movement, and fine-motor development.
Children need to move. Climbing, running, spinning, carrying heavy things, and hanging upside down aren't distractions from learning — they're a large part of how a young body builds strength, balance, and body awareness. We plan for real activity every single day, indoors when the New York weather doesn't cooperate.
Activities are adjusted so every child can take part. That might mean a seated version of a movement game, a wider balance path, a caregiver's hand for support, or extra time to finish. Children who use mobility equipment participate alongside everyone else — we adapt the activity, not the child.
Please send weather-appropriate clothing and closed-toe shoes your child can move in. We go outside whenever conditions allow.
Seven
Predictable schedules with visual cues and transitions to help children understand what comes next.
Children relax when they can predict their day. A child who knows that snack follows outdoor time, and that a book always comes before nap, spends far less energy bracing for the unknown — and has far more energy left for playing and learning. Our days follow the same shape from morning to pickup. The activities change; the rhythm doesn't.
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The daily schedule is posted at child height as a strip of pictures, and children move a marker along as the day progresses. Children who benefit from extra structure can carry their own small version, or use a first/then card — first cleanup, then snack.
Stopping something enjoyable is one of the hardest parts of a young child's day, so we make the switch predictable. Caregivers give a warning a few minutes ahead, use the same clean-up song every time, and give children a job to do during the change. Children who need more time get more time.
A field trip, a substitute caregiver, a holiday, a fire drill — these happen. We tell children in advance whenever we can, walk through what will be different, and keep as much of the usual rhythm as possible. When we know ahead of time, we let families know too.
Ask us for a copy of your child's daily schedule. Using the same routine and language at home makes both places easier.
Visit mid-morning and you'll catch the whole rhythm — play, break, snack, and the transition between them.
Who we care for
Care grouped by stage, not just by birthday — because a two-year-old who is still working on first words needs something different from a two-year-old who isn't.
Below is how we organize the day by age group. Because we're a home-based program, groups are small and children often move between activities based on readiness rather than strict age cutoffs.
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| Infants | confirm ages | confirm | Attachment, safe sleep, tummy time, responsive feeding, early sensory |
| Toddlers | confirm ages | confirm | First words and signs, movement, sensory play, beginning routines |
| Preschool | confirm ages | confirm | Early literacy and math, social skills, self-care, school readiness |
| School-age | confirm ages | confirm | Homework support, life skills, community outings, social clubs |
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By stage
Days follow your baby's rhythm, not ours. Feeding and sleeping on their own schedule, held and talked to constantly, with tummy time, soft textures, songs, and one-to-one attention. You get a written log of feeds, diapers, and naps every day.
Busy, physical, and full of first words. Lots of movement and sensory play, choices offered all day, simple signs used alongside speech, and gentle coaching through the sharing and big-feelings years.
Circle time, learning centers, early literacy and math through play, classroom jobs, and the social practice that makes kindergarten far easier. Individual goals tracked and shared with families.
A calm landing spot after school: snack, a real break, homework support, life skills, and activities that respect that they've already had a long day of sitting still.
Across every group
Children with autism and other developmental differences are enrolled in the group that fits them and supported inside it. That means visual schedules, sensory breaks, communication supports, and adapted activities are available in every age group — not in a special room down the hall.
Tell us your child's age and where they are right now. We'll tell you honestly what their day here would look like.
When we're open
Flexible hours built to fit how your family actually works — including schedules that don't line up with a standard nine-to-five.
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Scheduling options
Five days a week, full day. confirm hours
Set days each week, agreed in advance. confirm minimum days
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Early, late, or weekend care for shift schedules. confirm availability
Good to know
Ask. Flexible scheduling is one of the real advantages of a home-based program.
Joining us
Five straightforward steps from first phone call to first day — with a slower, gentler start for children who need one.
The process
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Availability
Because our groups are small, openings come up a few at a time. If we're full when you call, we'll put you on the waitlist with the schedule you need and contact you the moment a spot opens in your child's age group.
Call or text us today and we'll set up a tour this week.
For families
Everything you need to know about how we communicate, what to pack, and where to turn for support beyond our program.
Staying connected
A short, specific update at pickup — what your child actually did, ate, and worked on. Infants and toddlers also get a written log.
With your permission, we share photos of your child during the day so you see the good parts as they happen.
Scheduled conversations about how your child is developing, what we're working on, and what you're seeing at home.
Questions or a hard morning? Call or text. We'd rather hear from you than have you wonder.
Day to day
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Beyond our program
These are the services families ask us about most often. We're happy to talk through any of them with you, and to coordinate with any provider once you give us written permission.
Free evaluations and services for developmental concerns in children under three. Available through NYC's Early Intervention Program — reach it by calling 311.
Preschool special education services, arranged through your school district's Committee on Preschool Special Education.
Supports for people with developmental disabilities in New York State, including community habilitation and respite.
Subsidies and vouchers may help with the cost of care for families who qualify. Start with 311 or your local child care resource agency.
Local groups for parents of children with autism. Ask us — we'll point you toward ones other families here have found helpful.
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Our policies
Our full parent handbook covers arrival and pickup, illness, discipline and guidance, allergies, medication, emergency procedures, payment terms, and withdrawal. You'll receive a copy at enrollment and sign to confirm you've read it.
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Ask us directly. There's no question about your child we'd consider too small.
How we keep children safe
Clear rules, followed the same way every day — because safety in a child care setting is a matter of routine, not good intentions.
Children are within sight and sound of a caregiver at all times, indoors and out, including during naps.
Everyone working with children is CPR certified, first aid trained, background-screened, and trained in recognizing and reporting abuse or maltreatment.
Only authorized adults may collect a child, and we verify photo ID. Entry to the home is controlled during care hours.
Outlet covers, gates, secured furniture, locked cleaning supplies and medications, and a daily safety walkthrough.
Handwashing at set points all day, sanitized toys and surfaces, and a documented cleaning routine.
Fire and evacuation drills practiced calmly with the children, posted exit routes, stocked first aid kits, and a written emergency plan.
When a child is sick
Keeping a sick child home protects every other child and caregiver here. We know it's inconvenient, and we ask anyway.
Medical needs
Infants are placed on their backs to sleep, in their own crib, on a firm surface with no loose bedding, bumpers, or soft objects. Sleeping infants are checked and visually supervised throughout nap.
If something happens
Ask about it on your tour. We're glad to walk you through every procedure on this page.
Inside our program
A look at our rooms, our activities, and the ordinary good days that make up most of the year.
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What care costs
Clear pricing, written down, with no surprise line items — plus the funding routes families most often use to help cover it.
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| Infants | Full-time, 5 days | rate |
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| Toddlers | Full-time, 5 days | rate |
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| Preschool | Full-time, 5 days | rate |
| Preschool | Part-time | rate |
| School-age | Before & after school | rate |
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Paying
Help with cost
New York City families who qualify may receive help paying for care. Start with 311 or your local child care resource and referral agency. confirm which we accept
Families with an approved budget may be able to fund community habilitation hours. confirm what we are approved to bill
Many employers offer pre-tax dependent care accounts. We provide the receipts and tax ID information you'll need.
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Tell us the schedule you need and we'll give you an exact quote — no obligation.
Get in touch
Call, text, email, or message us on Instagram. We answer real questions from real parents every day — ask us anything.
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Tours by appointment.
Come see us
Tours run during program hours, because a quiet empty room tells you nothing. You'll see how children move through the day, how caregivers handle transitions, and what happens when something doesn't go smoothly.
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Straight answers
The questions parents ask us most, answered the way we'd answer them on the phone.
Yes — it's the reason many families find us. Children with autism and other developmental differences are enrolled in the regular age group and supported inside it, with visual schedules, sensory breaks, communication supports, and adapted activities built into the ordinary day.
No. A diagnosis tells us very little on its own; what matters is what your individual child needs. Children with no diagnosis, children being evaluated, and children with a long-standing diagnosis are all welcome.
No. We are a licensed child care program, not a clinical, medical, or therapy provider, and we don't diagnose or evaluate. What we do is reinforce the strategies your child's therapists already use, so the skills carry across settings. With your written permission we'll coordinate directly with them.
Small, by design — that's the whole advantage of a home-based program. Exact group sizes and ratios: confirm licensed capacity & ratios
add hours We also offer flexible and extended scheduling for families whose work hours don't fit a standard day — ask us what's possible.
Rates depend on your child's age and schedule. See our Rates & Payment page for the full list, or call and we'll give you an exact quote for the schedule you need. Some families use child care vouchers, subsidies, or OPWDD self-direction funding to help with cost.
We expect hard days. We keep everyone safe, stay calm, help your child settle, and talk about what happened afterward — and we tell you honestly at pickup. We don't shame children, we don't use isolation as discipline, and we don't call you to come get your child because they had a difficult morning.
Not here. Pointing, signing, picture cards, a device, leading an adult by the hand — all of it counts as communication and all of it gets a response. We use whatever system your child already has and stay consistent with it.
Extremely common, and we work with it rather than against it. We never pressure a child to eat and never use food as a reward or punishment. New foods are offered with no pressure, alongside something we know your child will accept.
Completely fine, at any age. Toilet training happens when a child is ready, not on a schedule, and we follow whatever approach you're using at home.
You'll get a specific verbal update at pickup — what your child did, ate, and worked on. Infants and toddlers also go home with a written log, and with permission we share photos during the day.
Most children begin with short visits before a full day, then build up at their own pace. A gradual, well-planned start prevents weeks of difficulty later, and it's worth the extra time.
We'll add you to the waitlist with the schedule you need and call you the moment a spot opens in your child's age group. Openings in a small program come up a few at a time, so it's worth getting on the list early.
Please do. Tours run during program hours so you see the real thing — the noise, the pace, the transitions. Call or text 917-992-5834, or see Contact Us, to set one up.
Call or text us at 917-992-5834. There's no question about your child we'd consider too small.